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[Cassandre]

GOD DAMNIT!

I'm so sorry everybody, but I might not be able to post a lot, and I am really really really sorry about it.

Well, I'm going throught my divorce, and Rob (my asshole husband) wants custody of my late sister's child. She and her husband (whom I actually LIKED) died in a car crash last year, and their baby daughter was the only survivor. She is now four years old, and she goes to sleep CRYING EVERY GODDAMNED NIGHT becaues that BASTARD won't leave me THE FUCK ALONE, and he wants a child who is RIGHTFULLY MINE!

Please help, and comment on your views, because I swear the only reason I'm not killing that BASTARD is because I don't want Cammilia to have to go to his family, and lose her Dre-dre. (thats me)

I love her so much, and she is rightfully mine, because she is my sister's daughter, and upon her and her husband's death, sole gaurdianship went to ME as stated in the will she made when she got cancer.

That child is the only reason I would ever return to France, and I had to leave, because that place holds too many painful memories. I don't give a shit about France, but if keeping Cammilia means going there, I'll do it.

Anything for that little girl.
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[DesertWolf]

Never be sorry for situation that involves FAMILY .All the people here would be in support of you in this time.
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[Shadow_Twisted]

What about said asshole's fiance? What's her position on the matter? As much as I wish there was something that I could do to help, she's the only one I've been made aware of that you can actually cooperate with in person, which is really the part that counts. You'll probably get custody, and likely the on;y reason he wants custody is so HE doesn't have to pay you child support. I know that's why my dad had to be such an asshole and practically rip my fucking heart out trying to make me choose. He still tries to count me as a dependant on his taxes every now and again, fucking shmuck.

[Cassandre]

Ok, thank you for letting me know that, I just wanted to let that out...
His fiance, Cassie, agrees with me as well. SHe knows that sole custody is mine for Cammilia, and she's pissed off at Rob for even trying to get my neice.
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[Niam Maxtor]

That's horrible! What a shmuck!

I've seen this happening a lot over the past few years with co-workers and friends of mine that get divorces, and almost always it boils down to the money and not the child themselves, looking at it from a third person perspective it makes me sick. I'm sorry that you have to go through this right after coming to America.
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[Cassandre]

Oh he knows that there is no chance he's getting at my money, so he's trying to gt my child. I don't know why he's doing this to me, I hate it...

And, Cammilia...I'm in her room with her, and she's just crying onto my shoulder like the world is ending...And for her, it is. Every night, after she falls asleep, I put my soaked shirt on Rob, and I go back into her room, and I just hold her, and sleep in there. I'm not teaching her English until she goes to kindergarten, if I even stay in America.

And thank you, Niam, I probably knew it was going to happen. The reason I kept my maiden name, is because the money can only be accessed by someon with the La Espatain name, and he's mad because he can't get it. he wants Cammy because I'll have to pay child support for her, and he could have it. If it weren't for Cassie, his fiance, I know that the money wouldn't be spent for Cammilia, only on him.
Bastard..I hate him.
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[Marx-Paragon]

why did you marry this dude agian?
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[Cassandre]

to get to A,erica, so I could stay without my greencard...He was actually very nice..but now..He's just so...so...God, I can't even begin to express it. I really hate him. My lawyer says that it states, wuite plainly, without loopkoles that Cammilia is my child now and....He's just putting up a fight to get tha money, and because he's just a fucking drama queen. I told Cammilia to call him a bastad in French every time she sees him.
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[Marx-Paragon]

well if the law is on your side then you'll be fine, i think. the courts tend to award custady to the women any ways.

um, i really dont know anything about children and such... but you really should'nt tell her to call him a bastard(even though he is acting like one) anger and malice only breeds more anger and malice.
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[Ashton Gray]

So much for the fair opinion I had of him. I can't understand why he want custody of a child that's not his and, assuming he can't speak French, one that cannot speak English. I still think the concept of money is the single worst idea mankind has ever come up with. That, and homework.

As far as I can tell, you should'nt have anything to worry about, Cassandre. You have legal, written authority in the form of your late sister's will stating that custody of her child would be yours and yours alone. You're the only one who can communicate with her, it seems. She obviously wants to stay with you and does'nt seem to like him at all. Even his own fiance is against him on this. And your lawyer has already told you that there is no chance you're going to lose her. I'd say you two are going to be together for a long time.
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[Rune174]

I could say that I do not sympathize for you Cassandre. I don't mean that in an apathetic way, because from what I have seen so far, you are a strong person who is highly resourceful. You have every qualification and necessities to raise this child, unlike Bastard who neither. The fact that you are fighting against him also proves that you care for Cammilia in a way that HE never can. You are a woman, just as she will be one day herself and would rather have somebody of her real family help her grow. I'm sure that everything will turn out for the best, at least thats what all of us here hopes for.
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[Cassandre]

Thank you everybody for helping me out and supporting me on this.

We have found something out, now. The will is written in French. Upon this discovery, Bastard got himself a French lawyer, who I'm sure he paid to say that it says custody goes to the husband upon any divorce. Well, becasue, I,unlike him, am not stupid, I'm taking this to French courts. The airplane takes off in an hour, I'm on my laptop right now.

So, Cammilia and I will be on homeground, and he's going to be in a strange land he's never been to before. We have the advatage, because our family is here (even the Spainish side, they came down to help me out) and I know how things work in France.

So, hopefully, this will be disputed, and he can get his ass away from us, and I can get my daughter, and that restaining order. I filed for one as soon as I filed for divorce, its a joint thing. So yay! Maybe..
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[DesertWolf]

Good Luck to you.We're all behind you and your niece/daughter.
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[Cassandre]

Thanks.
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[Rune174]

Damn that Bastard with a capital 'B'. I know that your family in France will help you.
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[Cassandre]

And my family in Spain. And the few in Italy.

yeah, those are the ones I'll have to keep away from BAsshole...Vanessa might not like me saying this, but the Italian side of my family is pretty much like a mafia.
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[Rune174]

Meh, I have no quarrels with anybody outside the US, so I won't say anything bad for no reason. As for Vanessa, I have no idea how she might feel about it either.
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[Cassandre]

yeah.....if she doesn't like it when people refer to Italians that way, I'M SORRY VANESSA!

If she doesn't care, then, IGNORE THIS VANESSA!
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[Rune174]

Well, if its true that your family, especially in those in Italy, have connections, true or otherwise, in the Mafia, I don't know how it would be offensive.
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[Ashton Gray]

Well, you have to remember, the mafia in America started as a means to protect Italian immigrants coming to America, who were treated very badly by the American people and barely, if at all, protected by the law. So this could be construed as a compliment. It depends on how you look at it. In any case, I'm glad you have more than just our support to help you through this, Cassandre, and I'm glad they'll be there for you physically. And as Rune said, you are a strong and highly resourceful person. I'm not worried about you or your niece/daughter. But I'll still wish you the best of all possible luck. After all, you can never have too much good luck.
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[Cassandre]

We're almost in France, I'm on the plane right now, and its about another hour. Cammilia and I are in First Class, and Asstard is in coach, courtesy of my family, who bought the tickets for us.

That's the bright side.

On the cloudy side, my family is going to try and hook me up with hundreds of people, to get my mind off of Asstard.

These are the jobs, having been assigned before I even knew I was going to France:
Cammilia, as soon as we get off the plane, is going to be constantly surrounded by family, the Italian side, who will be bodygaurds for her.

The Spainish side has prepared a villa in Madrid for us once the divorce is through, and has also made our rooms look like Spain, as everyone in the family knows I adore Spain.

The French side is doing what the French do best. They're in charge of the food, because apperently since I'm going through a divorce, I won't be able to cook for myself. Adding this to ht maid we already have at home and I have to do virtually nothing, except pick out a new boyfriend/girlfriend, and work through the divorce.
According to my younger sister, Camille, the former is too taxing, so she's doing that.

And so, the only job I think is hard, is the one I have to do.

I had no input whatsoever, but i'm very happy that the Italian part of the family are the bodygaurds, because the have italina mafia connections, and will be able to get more people in if needed.
My phone is swamped with calls, and the only thing I'm allowed to say, is "D'accord, d'accord."
If not, I'm grounded(?) for a month(?!).

And, on top of that, my mom will be following me around. EVERYEHERE. It's enough to make me cry.
If you wonder why I and Cammilia might need bodygaurds, it's because my family has a bad history of divorces, with children being kidnapped. That, and the fact that we're pretty rich, and many would-be kidnappers were highly disappointed when I left to America, but now that I'm back, and going through a divorce, I am apperently a prime target.

But, the silver lining to this dark cloud, I'm surrounded by my very, very, very, VERY visciuous family.
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[xxthalexx]

wow.....im not exactly sure what to say truthfully.
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[Cassandre]

To which part?

Should I put in little chapters?
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[Poecilotheria_27]

I feel sorry for the child.

[xxthalexx]

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[xxthalexx]

I know how you feel. I thought my wife loved me, but 2 years ago she divorced me and took practically everything i owned. Some people are just too cruel. and no its not your fault you married someone who changed on you.
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[Cassandre]

*hugs thale*
Awww...it's okay..

but right now I'm pissed off at that other person for insulting my parenting skills.
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[xxthalexx]

Im over it. She was a bitch anyways. (excuse my language)
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