Little/Very Upset.

[LunaIsAce]

Ever been with someone that will do everything for you one week, then shut off the next?

Well, I gave this guy like, the 50th chance at the start of this year, to make this relationship go right.
And he suddenly switches off, and when I speak to him, I get this:

''Just stop messaging me. Please. I'm doing something.''

That's his way of saying, leave me alone.
The thing is. It's like, an on/off relationship. and, him just backing off for a few days, he thinks it's okay to just toddle back?

I'm getting hurt too much. But I don't know how to tell him : ''I don't want to keep this up, to keep sleeping with you, or being with you, just for you to keep pushing me away''

I need help..
This has literally been my first relationship. And it's been going on for a year and a half. I don't know how to be with someone else, and I don't know how to make him back off for good when I still want us to stay friends.
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[Seeing Life]

I would try to be truthful with him. If the relationship is going nowhere, then I wouldn't see why to continue on. I had an ex that did the same thing. A month later, we talked about it, agreed that the relationship wan't going anywhere, then we just split up.

[LunaIsAce]

But. It's hard to bring up a breakup. when we arent techincally IN a relationship, if you get me.

And I will reply to you, i'm just having a little 'im upset' moment, aheh. I'll get a bath and calm myself down.
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[Seeing Life]

Ah, I see. Well, ask him what his true feeling about you are. That often determines rather or not to stay friends.

It's cool, just calm down and relax. I'll be harer all day to wait for your reply

[LunaIsAce]

Thanks. You guys are really sweet.

I'd be a wreck if it wasn't for you guys talking to me and cheering me up!

So thanks! ^-^
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[Seeing Life]

No problem, it's always fun to help people out.

It make me happy to help someone feel better.

[LunaIsAce]

<3
Had my bath ^0^
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[LunaIsAce]

it appears, he was just reinstalling windows.

but still. I just don't wanna be with him anymore.. xD
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[Seeing Life]

First: welcome back ^_^

Second: If that's how you really feel, then just tell him.

[LunaIsAce]

Well. He's asleep now. I shall have to meet him. and tell him. It would be unfair to say it online XP


but thanks!
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[Seeing Life]

Sounds like a plan to me. It would be kind of rude to break it off via internet lol.

((ready to continue our rp?))

[LunaIsAce]

Indeed. it's good to know ima be single now. xD

And sure!
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[Seeing Life]

Hey, I bet trere's alot of intresting guys who would love to be with you. Just got to keep searching untill you find him.

[Rune174]

I know the feeling. I knew a girl who used me and objectified everything we discussed. She always said I used her when I did everything she asked of me, and I just had to break it off. I could'nt read any of her actions and she still does try to get back with me.
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[Silvador]

My advice, tell him straight. Tell him how he is making you feel. He shouldn't be shutting you out like that. It's not right.
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[henkcobra]

be to the point and if he can't accept that he's not a man.
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[Dorian Longstreet]

I agree with Silvador on this one.

Though I am very sorry that you are having these problems.
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[Thorne]

I was very attached to a girl like that........over her but the damage is done

[LabrnMystic]

There's this old saying "3rd times the charm."

If I've learned anything from other people's relationships, the more times you keep trying to get back together, the more obvious it becomes to all those around you that the relationship is doomed.

Myself, I've never gotten back with anyone I broke up with. . or rather who broke up with me. As someone who always seems to just bare the burden on the inside and keep moving forward, the feelings pass and can never come back. Its sad, but that's spoken from a purely logical stance and not from the heart.
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The suspense is killing me. I hope it will last.

[Thorne]

I went back with the gal I'm talking about 5 times......I'm too loyal, its a detriment

[Thorne]

I went back with the gal I'm talking about 5 times......I'm too loyal, its a detriment