ARGH! my chest hurts.

[Thorne]

I wish I could stay in the dorms during my break.
I've come home for break and I wished I hadn't. Now don't get me wrong, I love my family but every time we are all in the same place, I always end up feeling like I should goes somewhere else and die. All the drama isn't good for me.
The #1 problem, the source of the drama, my 17 year old brother.
He moved out in october, because my parent's rules were to strict, "give us a call if you won't be in by 10" is such a harsh rule, my parents are just so cruel to him, I mean they took him to Europe this past summer-isn't that mean. Well he told them to go fuck themselves and he got an apartment with two gay guys. They did alot of [word censored] drinking and pot smoking, and in a months time my brother was broke, he managed to burn through about three grand in a month. Well he had the apartment paid off till march, but the three of them got evicted because they bought a pug. Well my brother was paying the gay guys rent, and they paid the renter, well they got their money back and didn't give my brother his money back.

My parents told me they wouldn't let him move back, told me they wouldn't go back on their word, but they did and the creep has been sleeping in my bed, which I don't have too much of a problem with, but He has turned my room into his room, he emptied out all my drawers and put his crap in them, and when I tell him to get out of my room he says fuck you your not the boss of me.

He is a major pain in my ass. He gets into ALL of my business.
say my phone is on the counter he'll pick it up and read all my text messages. He gets into my emails and reads them all. He goes through all my music and videos on my zune. If I'm on the computer he puts alot of effort to see whats on the screen, specially if I'm having a private conversation.

Well he doesn't know about this site, but he found a video, of Krystal on my zune, so he knows I've got a fur fetish, and he gives me shit all the time like "Don't [word censored] the dog while your here,". He just uses any ammo he can find, he's got one of those mental disorders where if he doesn't put someone down he doesn't have a good day. This isn't the first time he has done this shit, I was dating a girl when I was 17, my parents didn't want me dating her, so we texted instead of talking on the phone, well the little shit read my text messages and told my parents.
They then told me if i continued dating this girl that they would not support me financially or pay for college. I did love this girl, but I needed the education more, thats the only way I'll be suitable for any woman is if I can support her. So we broke up and now she is married to another guy But its probably for the best, I think she was just looking for a quick husband, and probably would have waited for me to get done with college. oh well.

[Wolf Stride]

Well Thorne, I'm personally not to keen on drama, but there are many situations like this. My best advice for now is to pretty much overpower the little bastard with knowledge, intelligence, power and camaraderie. If that doesn't work, use evidence on him or even the ol' mirror technique on him and he shall see how annoying on an exact replica of himself he really is.
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[Thorne]

Ya, I'd like to knock his little head off his block, if you met him you'd feel the same way, my room mates haven't met him and they know he's a little bitch.

He isn't the only problem though, just the bigger part of it all.

My dad is the other part.
I can't do a damn single thing right in his eyes, thank God he doesn't know about this site and what I do on the internet.

My dad all night, has been saying that me and my brother are draining the life out of him, and that I'm so worthless, and I don't care about him or my mom; this isn't true since I've been home I've helped with dishes, painting a room, and I've started digging in the yard for a sprinkler system. plus I rub my mom's poor feet and my dad's back. Yet anytime I try to defend myself, My dad takes it as a challenge and wants me to fight him physically.

[Thorne]

THINGS are a bit better, just trying to ignore every one.

Got some good news though, I passed Physics!!!
With a B, good considering I never got above a 60 on any test,
So I survived the semester, with 2 A+, 2 A's, a B and a C

[45dragoons]

well be lucky you have a dad i never had one cuase mine died 3 weeks before i was born so eh. but if my dad chalanged me i would wonder what was wrong with him O.o i mean really.. ummm just one question did your father perhaps play any sports in high school like football??
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[Thorne]

Well I'm glad to have him, without him college is out of the question.

He wrestled in middle school, was good, got beat once so he quit, in highschool he worked at a gas station then later on he worked with his dad.

He gets all his rage from his dad, who gets it from his dad......
I'm going to break the chain, i won't be sarcastic to my kids, I won't make them feel like crap, or atleast I'll try.

Maybe some of this stuff is due to a generation gap, see he was out on his own and married by 19, he was doing man's work when he was 17, I too learned what man's work was at 17.
I worked as a welder's helper on a natural gas plant, being my dad's help, every day was an ass chewing. It was good for me though.

[45dragoons]

ahh ok just wondering and my father as a mechanic with only one working arm.... and he had great mermorie he could take a car apart and put it together with out help.. i hear he was a good man lol and in many ways i slowly finding i am more like him then i relised expet i not good with mechanics XD.
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[Thorne]

Well working on that plant was tough, there's a long building that houses 4 two-story tall engines, should have seen the pistons, them pistons were 6 foot tall, one thing we did was build a staircase to the top of one of the engines, the other job was in the basement where the engines met foundation. Its dark down there and 110 degrees year round, lot of poisonous chemicals spilled down there, the hum of the engines prevents you from hearing someone right next to ya, got to tilt when your standing because the ceiling is only about 5 feet and 6 inches from the floor, lot of low bearing pipes. In otherwords a place just a bit nicer than hell.
Found a toad down there, took him home and put him in my garden, don't know how he survived, the chemicals were peeling his skin.

Odd place.

[Evan_Himmel]

Sheesh, Your brother sounds like one of thous types that needs a sound beating, jail time, or a round of millitary boot camp to get him to pull his head out of his ass. Unfortunitly my experince with ass hole relatives is based around aunts, uncles, and cusens and not direct famly. So unfortunitly your only two choices that i can see is to use sarcasim as an air clearer (like telling him that he has chicklets for nuts and an ass for a brain for waisting 3 grand in such a short time,) or to guard your stuff like Fort Knocks.

As for your Father, that doesnt sound like sarcasim at all. It sounds more like he is takeing out his fealings about growing older out on you and your brother. Unfortunitly i dont know the root to his problem and reason for lashing out, so just think of it as his way of saying "when i was your age, we walked ten miles through ten feet of snow just to get to school each morning." Like every elderly person does to get attention and to make younger famly members think highly of them.

I know that what i typed may be mean, but some times being mean is a nessisary evil.

[Thorne]

well he is sarcastic, I didn't really display that though, he tells me he likes being sarcastic because it makes him feel witty.

My Brother does need his ass beat, if I do it he'll just call the cops, he did before for much less. damn minors!

[Evan_Himmel]

[Thorne]

It would do him some good, to be beat within an inch of his life, i don't wish it upon him, but he needs it.

[Evan_Himmel]

[Shadow_Twisted]

I can relate, to an extent. Except the problem with my situation is that mine doesn't go away after the holidays. My... ummm... we'll go with stepfather-in-law, is a pretty annoyingm piece of work. He has a son, who is my wife's half brother. Anyways, if ANYTHING is out of shape in the house, it's immediately either my wife's fault or my fault. Then there's his son, that never does anything. As much as the man may say what he's going to do about his son, the only thing he does is spoil him undservingly. At one point, he started putting up sheetrock to section off an area into a new room. The room was the size of his son's room and my wife and I's room combined. Obviously, that means this room is pretty big and you have one annoying lazy ass in a room, and then 2 people who actively contribute to the overall well-being of the house crammed into a room, that might be just a bit bigger. So who gets the new larger bedroom? Of course it goes to the annoying lazy ass. I'm not too concerned, because I know the lazy piece of shit will never hold down a job and will just be a drain on his father until one of them dies. In the meantime, I'm doing the right thing, working on securing my future. Then, I look forward to saving up, moving out, and cutting my ties with them forever.

[Thorne]

Ya I realize I'm not the only one on here with pain in the ass family members, Posting this allowed me to vent some, I needed to; I'm usually the kind of person that internalizes things to the point of almost making myself sick, I don't take it out on others I take it out on myself, and that just ain't healthy.

[henkcobra]

and I thought that my parents were a pain in the ass.

at the moment I have some bad time of my own

1 my mother want to have me back on school again
2 my grand father is passing away, still alive but we know he has not much longer.
3 she is at the moment my mother and father at the same time
4 my father is still living with us but he let me go on my 16, he never made me a man
5 family has some problems which I don't want to be part of, I have good memory's of them now and good contact so I can visit them always.

it is maybe nothing compare to your problems but I want to get it solved soon as possible and get on with my life.

I hope that you can find solotoin soon.

But I have a question, why can you move out completely thorne? Your own place, with some friends/ roommates?

Shadow_twisted why can't you and your wife life with some other family?

sorry, but I had to ask, these things are so unusal for me.

you don't have to answer them.
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[Thorne]

Henk I could move out but that would be kissing my dreams of being a doctor good bye. I need the financial support, Its a good family, just two members that live off of drama and anger!

How about your situation Henk, it sounds like your about my age, are you? Its tough, but I think I'll make it through school, just got to struggle through it.

[henkcobra]

[Thorne]

Scaring me a bit there Henk... Anyways, kilometers...? I was assuming you were American...damn my American ignorance!

I hope to become a doctor, I don't think I have what it takes for anything else, maybe a massage therapist, I'm real good at rubbing knots out, I enjoy rubbing my poor mom's feet, and I give my dad a good back rub every once in a while.
I like to write, I have an epic story I've been writing since 6th grade, the early parts need a lot of attention, but the story has become well developed. If it was a game picture space combat much like Star Wars Battle Front 2, killstreaks operated through a pip-boy like system, carrying weapons much like the way they were carried in half-life, you know 4 weapon choices instead of the the usual two, class customization that as diverse as call of duty Modern warfare 2, ventruing into customization of movement, melee, and how a grenade is thrown. and to boot a story much like independence day, with starship trooper like feel as well as a Communism versus democracy feel. Maybe its a bit of a mess, but its my mess,

If it got made into a game, I'd want there to be a version of it for every kind of gamer!
What can I say I'm a dreamer, but to be honest with myself becoming a doctor is a more noble and high achieving goal, being a story-writer/video game director is a more liquid and unstable desire.

[Silvador]

[Thorne]

It fits, I'd be the kind of guy that could take a cannon ball in the chest and then complain that my chest hurts!


Me if I survive to age of 80!

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[Thorne]

WELL I'M Here to vent some more

My other part of the family deserves to go to Hell. They have been taking care of my Great Grandma for the last 20 years, primarily an aunt of mine.
Well she is getting to old to take care of her, she just fell herself.
The family has owned and operated a rest home since the 80's it belongs to my Great Grandma, well they are putting her in there instead of her home which is 10 ft from it. They are keeping her there at her expense, all the money going to my Aunt. They're all fighting over her money and she still breathing. Each of the kids on that side are fighting for a share.

This is BS, my great grandma has been good to all of them, each of them has taken turns benefiting from her generosity; a spare house owned by my grandma, has always had some one from the other side living in it. My Aunt lost her husband young and has been living with her ever since, at first the relationship went one way, my grandma giving her money so she could gamble, she did an alright job taking care of her, but always complaining about it.


It just ain't right they're charging my Great Grandma to stay in her own rest home, yet never once did she require them to pay rent, she has also bought a couple of vehicles for each of them.

It just pisses me off a bit, such greed! I hope they rot, maybe my grandma will out live them all!

[Rune174]

Man, it seems like that brother of yours needs a life's lesson in getting his ass kicked. He sounds so spoiled and arrogant that I bet he'd never last a week in boot camp.
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i say ya brother should be forced to work for the fucking army let them sort out his fat fucking lazy ass

becuse they will kick his ass into next fucking week with the way they do things.
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[Thorne]

He is the lazy one, but I'm the fat one, he was blessed with a fast metabolism, He'd get kicked out of the army probably, he bitches quite a bit.

[Thorne]

I think I'll just keep this as my venting thread, if its read and replied to fine if not oh well.

Took a girl out for a movie and dinner, her name is Erin and she is a past girlfriend of mine. She isn't a bombshell but that doesn't matter. I think she is a cute and sweet person. I ended the relationship, which is odd for me since most of mine are ended by the girl or her parents or mine.
I had my reasons, I have had a few relationships before her and I came into the relationship looking for a semi-serious relationship, no going to far you know. Well I'm the second guy to even think of her like that, so we aren't on the same level.

I really do feel sorry for her, she doesn't seem to have any cognition or desire for a romantic or loving relationship. I doesn't have to be me, I'd like for to have something real with anyone. I've taken her out a bunch, movie and dinner being the common outing. She doesn't like to hold hands, she shies away from hugs, and the one time she agreed to be kissed she turned away from me before I could. I can't get any emotions out of her, she likes being around me but I think it wouldn't matter if it was me or a stranger. My friends and family just sees that she likes having someone to talk to and to take her out for a night on the town. I wish I could evoke something from her, but with each date I find myself driving home empty inside. Its not a good feeling.


Funny thing tonight though, she's got two labs, and they were playing with a dog toy. Her dad grabbed the dog toy and threw it in my direction.
Well one of the dogs ran right into me running, that darn thing sacked me good. Man that hurt, it hurt for a good hour, I felt it in my stomach. I kind of think he did that on purpose...

[henkcobra]

[Thorne]

I know what your saying Henk, I was doing really good, I had a routine in which I did 100 sit ups before breakfast, very easy to get out of it though. Right now I skip a meal a day, It was my dad's idea but it doesn't work too well, all I've accomplished is slowing down my already slow metabolism, I'll find something that works, I'm out of shape but not bad if I'd just buckle down.

As for that girl, I just feel sorry that she doesn't seem to want any romantic relationship with any one, but I'm not in her head so I don't know, maybe she does and just can't show it. Anyways the situation is off.

[henkcobra]

something else to, you can stop or minimal mice your snacks, candy, sodas, alcohol and increase your vegetables, fruit, water, tea with no sugar.

I'm doing it now and it takes time, but it works for me. But before I can see progress on my body I will be in march or April.
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[Thorne]

I'm going to do a 180 right now, and instead of venting I'm going to entertain.

The last time me and my brother did dishes together was about 2 years ago.
He always asks for help when its his turn and I always end up drying. I'm capable of doing it all how come he ain't.

Well anyways, I dried and put away the dishes.
I had a cookie sheet we used to make pig in a blanket with. And it goes on top of the fridge so I dried it off and put it on top of the fridge. Well my turd of a brother got behind me while I was doing this and groped my moobs. And WAP, I wacked him with that metal cookie sheet as hard as I could.
It happen so fast I didn't even think about it. It hit him on the top of his head and was bent in half. He didn't cry, but he probably should have, he just stared at me in amazement, he had a grin on his face and was laughing a bit. I think I gave him brain damage. We through away the cookie sheet, wasn't any good after that.