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Julia Lovepaw
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PostPosted: Thu Jun 17, 2010 4:09 pm    Post subject: My life sucks right now Reply with quote

So i'm usually really mean to my sister's kids but i have been nice to them for like the past 2 weeks. and today i say one joking thing about my 5 year old neice being blind cause her face was burried into the screen watching justin beiber and all of a sudden my sister tells me i failed school cause i was stupid or some crap like that. So i walked away before i made it worse and all of a sudden i'm the worst person in the family, my mom came in and yelled at me when she got home. she started to lay down new rules on me and its my fault my mom couldn't have dinner at my sister's house.

I could of been a huge bitch to my sister and told her that her life is so fucked up right now cause she was a stupid bitch and got pregnant at 15 but i didn't say that.

I give up on trying to make everyone happy v.v i should just move out already, leave everything my mom bought me and just live with my friend. maybe everyone's life would be better with out me fucking everything up.
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mackwell
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PostPosted: Thu Jun 17, 2010 4:16 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

fuck everyone else. dont hold anything back. say what you want to say and dont give a rats ass about how they feel. if they dont like the truth then they shouldnt have gotten in that situation in the first place
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PostPosted: Thu Jun 17, 2010 4:20 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

*gives Julia a hug*

Don't leave your home, it may seem like a good idea at the time, but it will kick you in the ass later on in life. Take it from me when I say you should stay with your parents and try to tough it out. There will be times when you want to rip your hair out, but times change.

I was in the same boat a couple years back, living with the family and hating every second of it, but I stuck with it, and it does get better with time.
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PostPosted: Thu Jun 17, 2010 4:42 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

*gives julia a hug as well*

well julia i guess i could share this i dont normally like talking about my self but i guess i can just this once.

well for me and my family i moved out at the age of 16 because to my mum's secound husband i was a useless waste of space also ididnt get on with my sister or my mum very well.

to say i alway got into fight witch is how i got a scar across my left eye then on my 16 birthday me and my mum's husband had a massive fight with resulted in him well punching me and me hitting him back i sort of gave him a black eye and well my mum saw.

so i hade a huge fight with her and pretty much told them to fuck off and that i was sick of them so i got kicked out and baiskly told that i am the worst son in the wolrd and that i will acplishe nothing in life.

i moved in with my freind kanga who some no as my other furson and lived with him in london till i turned 18 finally i got sick of england and wanted out so me and kanga moved to his parnet's holiday house in austrlia.

what im saying is im 22 now and havent talked to any of my family for 6 years exept my older brother who somehow found me on xbl i asked him if my mum has asked about me and true to his word she hasent.

i now regert leaving and the things i've done.
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PostPosted: Thu Jun 17, 2010 5:03 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote


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PostPosted: Thu Jun 17, 2010 5:36 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Listen to Mama Said - Metallica
it might help.
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Shadow_Twisted
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PostPosted: Thu Jun 17, 2010 6:30 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I just don't get people. You wanna leave home over this? I have a very real reason to not wanna be stuck with my stepdad, and that's the simple fact that communication with him is impossible. He once told me he regretted buying the house we live in. Guess what? He didn't buy it! In all honesty, if my mother-in-law wouldn't have included his name on the deed when she inherited it, we could kick his ass out. He's a greedy, selfish bastard who only looks out for himself. There's almost no hope for my brother-in-law because he can't even stand his own dad.

Your situation is ridiculous, you know why? You wanna play the victim because you decided NOT to make the situation worse, yet you admit that you've been nice for the past 2 weeks and you niece is what? 5? One comment probably wasn't the source of your sister's retaliation, it was probably just the straw that broke the camel's back. Own up to your mistakes, apologize, and see how it goes from there, but trying to blame everyone else will never fix a damn thing.
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Eechironin
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PostPosted: Thu Jun 17, 2010 6:37 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

It's not you Julia, its your sister.
Anyone else would have laughed at that harmless joke, but something in your sister was very wound up and cracked (and it looks like your mom is taking her side).

Hold your head high, don't let it get to you, and you have lots of friends in other places to support you.

Sending you a warm hug

()()() <hugs
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PostPosted: Thu Jun 17, 2010 6:45 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Shadow_Twisted wrote:
I just don't get people. You wanna leave home over this? I have a very real reason to not wanna be stuck with my stepdad, and that's the simple fact that communication with him is impossible. He once told me he regretted buying the house we live in. Guess what? He didn't buy it! In all honesty, if my mother-in-law wouldn't have included his name on the deed when she inherited it, we could kick his ass out. He's a greedy, selfish bastard who only looks out for himself. There's almost no hope for my brother-in-law because he can't even stand his own dad.

Your situation is ridiculous, you know why? You wanna play the victim because you decided NOT to make the situation worse, yet you admit that you've been nice for the past 2 weeks and you niece is what? 5? One comment probably wasn't the source of your sister's retaliation, it was probably just the straw that broke the camel's back. Own up to your mistakes, apologize, and see how it goes from there, but trying to blame everyone else will never fix a damn thing.


Hummmm,

Harsh, but speaks truth.

Neither of us knows what really went on, Julia, so you have to discover the best course.

But remeber, there is always someone who can help you, just ask.
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PostPosted: Thu Jun 17, 2010 9:38 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

It'll be ok in the long wrong. You were being the better person by at least walking away without instigating a bigger fight.
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